Kiai Kim also goes by Wing Girl Kim. After losing the man she wanted to marry to injuries from a car accident, Kim decided to try to solve dating problems. Starting by asking her dates, "Can I offer a suggestion?" Kim became an adviser and confidante to dozens of men. This eventually led to going out with guys as their wing girl. Now, Kim brings her experience and advice to men everywhere with her first book, AlphaDog, Get The Bitch You Want: A Man's Guide to Dating, by a Woman.
Kim spent her childhood in the Catskill Mountains in upstate New York. Having two brothers and playing with neighborhood kids who were mostly boys, she has had a unique position as being both one of the guys and a girl who has dated them. Wing Girl Kim is a writer for TheRugged.com. She rides and works on her own 1983 Suzuki GS550, and blogs about motorcycles on MotorcycleBaby.com.